As a pediatrician, I work with all children including those with disabilities. I hear how difficult it can be to get out the door in the morning. In this blog, I share tips for creating a morning routine to get out the door on time and with less stress. Most children do better when there are routines that are predictable and consistent, including children with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and Autism Spectrum Disorders.
Learning a morning routine can be especially challenging for children with disabilities. They often need more directions, practice, and patience to learn these skills. Each family will need to change these tips to work in their home.
- Have your child pack his/her backpack and place it by the door at night. Make sure homework and projects are in the backpack. Creating a homework folder makes this easier.
- When possible, pack lunches the night before.
- Help your child pick out clothes the night before. This helps stop disagreements about what to wear.
- Start backwards. Figure out what time you need to leave. Decide how long the morning routine will take. Give 10 to 15 minutes of extra time. That amount of time determines when to wake your child up.
- Pleasant wake up. Have the alarm play a favorite song or wake your child up gently with a hug and cuddle. Harsh alarms or abrupt wake ups can start the day off poorly.
- Create a get ready routine: Wake Up, Get dressed, Eat breakfast, Brush teeth, Review the day and backpack, Leave for school.
- Get dressed first as this is often the biggest hurdle in the morning
- Post a visual chart or checklist of each step. Laminate it or hang it in a plastic folder. Your child can use a dry erase marker to check things off when done.
- Can use pictures of your child doing each step
- If your child is more interested in music, create a playlist of songs. Each song goes with a different task in the morning routine.
- Use a timer showing your child the time left for each step.
Getting Out the Door
- Use a silly sound (a wolf howl) to warn your child 5 minutes before it is time to leave.
- At first, you will need to use the sound and a warning “five more minutes”. Eventually just the silly sound will work.
- Use a different silly sound (duck quacking) for when it is time to leave.
- At first, you will need to use the sound and a warning “Time to go”.
Make It Fun
- Praise your child for completing steps in the routine. At first, the praise should be IMMEDIATE.
- Create rewards for following the routine. This can be a sticker chart or small prizes.
- Your child can do a favorite activity as a reward if finish early. This can be very motivating.
- No TV or tablet until your child is dressed and ready for school. If your child is ready early, he/she could watch a short clip.
Stick to It
- Creating a new routine or habit takes 3 weeks. Work towards the same goal for 3 weeks.
- Once you have mastered the morning routine, create a bedtime or homework routine.
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Many workers living with a disability receive low pay from their jobs. There is a law called the Fair Labor Standards Act or FLSA. The FLSA helps protect workers from their jobs. Most people do not know that the FLSA has a section called 14 (c). Section 14 (c) lets jobs pay low wages to people living with disabilities
Many people living with a disability in the United States are paid under $4 an hour. Workers who are paid low cannot afford to pay rent. They cannot afford to pay their bills. They cannot afford to buy the things that they need.
Activists and lawmakers are working together to change the FLSA law by:
- Fighting for higher pay
- Fairness in the workplace
- Better benefits
- More jobs
The costs in America are going up every year to live here. People living with disabilities have a right to fair wages
If you would like to know more about the Fair Labor Standards Act, please click below
Many people with disabilities are being paid low wages and its perfectly legal
Hello, my name is Felisha Thomas and I work as a behavior therapist in a public school.
Therapists and teachers use ABA to help work with children. ABA stands for Applied Behavioral Analyst. This means the science of behavior. ABA is not just for children with autism. ABA is used to help all children with their behaviors.
Therapists and teachers learn ABA in school. They learn about the 3 ABCs of behavior.
- Antecedent: what are they doing before the behavior?
- Behavior: what are they doing?
- Consequence: what are they doing after the behavior?
Therapists and teachers use ABA for lots of things.
Help children make better choices throughout the day.
- Help children who are sad.
- Help children who are mad.
- Play with children at the playground.
- Keep children safe.
- Help children follow directions in class.
- Help teach children the rules.
- Help children learn the class lessons.
Therapists and teachers go other places outside of school to help children too.
- We go to museums.
- We go to zoos.
- We go to parks.
- We go to the pool.
- We try to help children anytime there is a need.
Therapists and teachers are friendly. We let children know that we are their friends who like to help.
For more information on ABA therapy, see ABA in Classroom Settings.
What is ADHD?
How many types are there?
What are challenges people with ADHD may have?
What can families and teachers do to help a child with ADHD?
In ADHD, children have a hard time making and keeping friends. They also may not do well in school. Some children with ADHD have low self-esteem. ADHD affects millions of kids around the world. Adults have it too. Treatment can help people with ADHD feel better. But, it does not cure ADHD. Treatment is either medicine, behavioral interventions, or both. It happens more in boys than in girls.
There are three main types of ADHD (according to the Mayo Clinic).
- Hyperactive (Over-active). This happens more in boys.
- Talking too much.
- Difficulty waiting for their turn.
- Difficulty staying seated in the classroom.
- This happens more in girls.
- Short attention span.
- Difficulty staying on task.
- Making careless mistakes.
- Difficulty staying focused.
- Appearing not to listen, even when spoken to directly.
- Difficulty with organizing tasks.
- Easily distracted.
- (both overactive and inattentive). This is the most common type in the United States.
Other challenges in children with ADHD
- Learning disabilities.
- Understanding difficulty.
- More car accidents and injuries.
- More poisoning and choking.
What can teachers do to help CHILDREN with ADHD?
Teachers can help children with ADHD to stay focused by putting them in a quiet space. By doing this, there are fewer noises and other distractions. Also, white noise helps kids concentrate and pay better attention while learning.
Other helpful ways to help kids focus is to use a timer. There are different kinds, such as kitchen timers and dual timers. They help kids with ADHD manage time wisely. They help improve concentration. Some people prefer kitchen timers or timer apps. Many therapists think a timer app works for only a short time before a kid with ADHD tunes it out. (See Timer Visual Productivity / Android version.)
Routines and rules in the classroom can make a big difference.
Audiobooks, talking books and text to speech (TTS) will enable kids with ADHD to listen carefully to text. TTS helps kids with ADHD understand what they are reading. It also helps them recognize words.
Children and adults with ADHD can use a smart-pen, such as LIVESCRIBE, to take notes in class and record the classroom. After school, people with ADHD can read notes they took and listen to a recording at the same time. (See the YouTube video, “5 Students Share smartpen Lecture Techniques”.)
Other useful resources for people with ADHD:
Explore Simple Math, Basic Math, and more!
Three Components of Successful Programs for Children With ADHD.
In this blog, I would like to discuss briefly three main issues.
- Define tremor, types of tremor, and diseases that may cause it.
- What is the importance of smartphones in the lives of people with tremor?
- How software helps people overcome shaky hands.
The smart phone has become an important tool for people. They help us talk to our families and have fun. The following are some ways smart phones can improve the health and lives of people with disabilities.
Tremor is an uncontrolled movement of the body. Some people call it “shaky hands”. Here are two types.
- Resting Tremor (RT) is part of Parkinson’s Disease (PD). In 2004, there were about 5 million people with PD in the world. There will be 40 million in 2020. There tends to be less Resting Tremor when the body is moving. Resting Tremor is worse when the body is at rest.
- Essential tremor (ET) is another uncontrolled movement of the hands. ET is the most common tremor. The World Health Organization says 4% of people are affected by ET. Essential Tremor is worse when the body is moving, and better when the body is at rest.
Other causes of tremor:
- brain tumors;
- side effects of some medicines;
- caffeine; and
Smart phones have become a tool to transmit and store data from people with tremor. They are also used to learn about tremor and to see how good a treatment is.
Below are some free apps with brief explanations:
- Lift Pulse App is available for Android and IOS. It can identify your tremor and measure its degree. You can set your baseline readings (on a normal day) and compare them with results from other days. You can find this app at:
- Lift Pulse App download link / Android version
- Lift Pulse App download link / IOS Version.
- Parkinson’s Central App is available for Android and IOS. It is a great free app for people with Parkinson’s Disease. It answers general questions to improve the lives of people with shaky hands. It gives information on health insurance and local resources near you. You can find this app at:
- Parkinson’s Central App download link / Android Version
- Parkinson’s Central App download link / IOS Version.
- Essential Tremor App is available for Android and IOS. It is a great free app for people with Essential Tremor. It gives you general information about symptoms and treatments. It lets you know about ET events near you. You can find this app at:
- Essential Tremor App download link / Android Version
- Essential Tremor App download link / IOS version.
Touch screens on smart phones could be a challenge for people with tremor.
Below are some helpful solutions.
Change the sensitivity of the touchscreen. Find Accessibility Options in Settings. Now you can adjust such options as:
- Assistive Touch
- Touch Accommodations
- Switch Control
- Keyboard Size
- Shake to Undo
Review the options and play around with them to find what is best for your needs.
There are other free apps that would be useful as well. Also, many users with tremor prefer to use voice to text to overcome the challenges of tremor.
I encourage you to enjoy your smart phone, and not to let tremor hold you back.
I am a pediatrician. I often work with children who have attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Medication often can help. But there are other ways to help too. One is mindfulness.
What is Mindfulness?
The idea of mindfulness is to focus on what is going on in the moment, on purpose, with no judgement (Kabat-Zinn, 1994).
Research shows that these activities can help children with ADHD. This includes the following.
- Focusing on important thoughts while ignoring others.
- Help with the behaviors that get children into trouble.
- Help with control over their emotions
How Can Parents Teach This To Their Children
There are lots of ways to learn to be more mindful. One activity may work well for your child and others may not. You might have to try more than one thing with your child.
Some schools teach mindfulness activities. But not every school does. There are classes, such as children’s yoga, that can teach these skills. However, classes can be costly and hard to find. Below are some tools for parents. Many can be done at home.
Yoga is a good way to help an active child focus. For young children, I like books that show simple poses.
Older children and teens should start with a live class. This is to make sure:
- their form is correct;
- they learn how to change a hard pose to make it work for their body; and
- they know which poses should not be tried alone at home.
This helps lower the chance of injury. You should always talk to your child’s doctor before starting a new exercise program.
There are low-cost options for yoga. These include non-profit studios and community classes. These options will be different based on where you live.
Once children know how to do yoga safely, they can use online videos. There are free classes on YouTube. Do Yoga with Me is a free website.
Breathing exercises can also aid a child. These can help calm and focus the mind. Many only take a few minutes.
Common Sense Media has a list of apps for children. You can sort them by age.
These are some ideas that can be done without technology.
More info on the research behind mindfulness and ADHD is discussed in the article Exercising the Mind to Treat Attention Deficits.
Kabat-Zinn, J. (1994). Wherever you go there you are: Mindfulness meditation in everyday life. New York, NY: Hyperion.
My 25 years old son is non-verbal. He uses his phone as his speech output device. He has worked hard to learn the software on his phone. This software speaks the words that he types into his device. He has used a variety of other speech output devices in the past. There are many more options for speech output devices available now. And, there are places like MassMatch (1 ) which can help each user to find the best choice.
When he was younger, family members and teachers would always be with him and speak for him. These days he still always with someone when he is out in the community. But, now, he is interested in speaking for himself. He also has the vocabulary and skills to speak for himself.
So, how does it go? Well, it depends… Let me describe a common situation that shows how much effort it takes for my son to communicate in public places. Ordering fast food or in a restaurant is something that we all do. For my son, it is a chore. He must get the waiter’s attention. Then, he will order his food. Most of the time, he needs to repeat his order. e needs to repeat it more than one time. If the waiter stops and listens, it is easier. but, most of the time, he needs to repeat his order.
Speaking in public is hard for many people. It is more difficult for someone who uses a speech output device. He shows us that many strangers do not choose to listen. Our public places, malls, restaurants, outdoor spaces are noisy. here is music, talking, traffic, and other sounds. My son cranks up the volume on his phone. On a good day, a stranger will listen to his computer voice. The pride my son takes in talking with someone is worth the effort. This photo shows my son speaking to us. You may be in a place where someone is trying to speak with a device. Please take the time to listen and respond. It only takes a little bit more time and the rewards are great.
Jobs. We each expect to find a job when we are adults. Some people know exactly what they
want to do for a job. Many people try different jobs to find one that fits. For my son with
Autism Spectrum Disorder, (or Autism), a job is more like a hope or idea. He is now an adult.
He has skills that would be useful in different work places. The challenge is to find a work
place that will even let him try to work.
Is he the only person with Autism who is not able to find a job? I wanted to find out. So, here
is what I learned about employment or jobs, for people with Autism. There are not a lot of
data on this topic. Data are collected for people with disabilities. But data are not often sorted by diagnosis.
This chart shows what I did learn about jobs for young adults with Autism. The chart shows
the employment rates for young adults who
have ever worked after high school. It specifies
rates by category. The rates are learning
disability, 95%, Speech/language impairment,
91%, Emotional disturbance, 91%, Intellectual
Disability, 74% and Autism, 58%. It confirms
that my son is not alone in being unemployed.
There are companies looking to hire. Dell EMC in Central Massachusetts is
one of them. According to an article in the Worcester Business Journal on May
15, 2017, Dell EMC will have a hiring program. This hiring program will work to bring more
people with Autism into the company. They want to hire people with Autism for their skills.
It is good to read about a company that wants to hire people with Autism. This company needs
very specific skills. We will keep working on developing my son’s skills that might be useful in
future jobs. We will talk with our friends and families about hiring people with Autism. We
hope that there is a work place that will welcome our son in the future.
There is an article that summarizes the existing research about hiring an adult with Autism. (1.)
This article surveyed all the published articles that considered the costs and benefits to society,
to the person with Autism and to the employer. The first finding is that there is not enough
research being done on the costs and benefits to employers. It did find some results showing
that it costs society less to have people with Autism employed rather than not employed.
There are indications that people with Autism are happier and busier if they have jobs. The
hope is that more research will be done in the future. This research may show that it is not too
costly to employ people with Autism. Then, maybe more companies would be willing to
interview, train and hire people with Autism. It would make the hope or dream of a job,
become a real job for my son and his peers.
- The Costs and Benefits of Employing an Adult with Autism Spectrum Disorder: A Systematic Review
Andrew Jacob, Melissa Scott, Marita Falkmer, Torbjörn Falkmer
PLoS One. 2015; 10(10): e0139896. Published online 2015 Oct 7. doi: 10.1371/journal.pone.0139896
PMCID: PMC4596848 Article PubReader PDF–1.3MCitation
My name is Scott Janz. I am a Job Coach. I help adults find jobs.
Disabilities at Work
People with disabilities can work. Disability does not mean not able. I help many adults get hired. People with disabilities take pride in making a change. Jobs are important for all. I believe biases can be broken. Breaking barriers is vital. I help people reach fairness. Everyone deserves the same chance to get a job.
Strengths at work
- Hard work ethic
- Low turnover
- Increased diversity
Bias at work
Bias exists at work for many adults. Bias can take many forms. Bullying and stigma are examples. The Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) protects against bias at work. I work with adults at their jobs. I support their skills. We need to make work fun.
As a pediatrician, I work with all children including those with disabilities. This blog shares tips for toilet training. Toilet training can be difficult for all families. It can be especially challenging for children with disabilities. They often need more time, directions, practice, and patience to learn these skills. Each family will need to change these tips to work in their home.
Strategies for Toilet Training:
Create a Schedule
- Schedule toilet times, with a goal of 4-6 sits a day.
- Use a visual schedule or pictures to help your child understand toileting.
- Pictures of your child doing each step: going into the bathroom, sitting on the toilet, reaching for the toilet paper, flushing, and washing hands.
- Use first…then statements. First toilet then something your child enjoys doing. “First toilet then play with cars”.
- Create a picture board with simple pictures (see example)
- Instead of asking if your child needs to go to the bathroom say, “Time for the toilet.”
Sitting on the Toilet
- At first, the sits on the toilet are short (5 seconds per trip) with one long trip to practice having a bowel movement. Over time increase the sitting time (e.g., up to 5minutes).
- Setting a visual timer lets your child know when the sitting ends.
- Sits at first can be in clothes. Then underwear. Then without underwear.
- If your child uses the toilet then your child can get up right away.
- Boys are taught to sit on the toilet to urinate until regularly having bowel movements on the toilet.
- Keep track of bowel habits to create your schedule. Watch for signs that your child needs the bathroom (crossing legs and dancing or going to a corner)
- 20-30 minutes after dinner or a snack, your child should go to the bathroom and sit on the toilet.
- Drinking more fluids and eating more fiber will help your child toilet more.
Make It Fun
- Move to underwear. It helps your child realize when he/she is wet or soiled. If able, have your child pick out the underwear.
- Bring a favorite book or sing a favorite song that is only read/sung in the bathroom.
- If your child does to the bathroom, give IMMEDIATE praise. At the end of the timer, praise your child for sitting on the toilet.
- Create rewards for toilet training, one for sitting and two for going. Can use sticker charts or small prizes only used for toileting. Give the reward IMMEDIATELY after the bathroom trip. Reward even small successes.
- After sitting on the toilet, your child can do a preferred activity. Using first then statements (above).
- Read fun books about toilet training with your child at bedtime.
Stick to It
- Accidents happen. Let your child know it is no big deal. Change your child in the bathroom to learn the bathroom is for toileting.
- Work towards the same goal for 3 weeks.
Create a Team
- Make toileting a team goal with school teachers, therapists, and your doctor.
- Working on toileting at home and school will increase learning.
- Watch for constipation and talk to your pediatrician. Constipation can slow toilet training progress
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